What to Do if Your Man isn’t on Board with Your Home Decorating Ways

by Kimba on March 3, 2011

in decorating

I get lots of emails from people asking how my husband feels about my home decorating ways. They usually come after I make reference to my rather extensive stash of stuff in the basement. Even though I seriously reduced the size of my stash at my garage sale last summer, I still have quite a bit of stuff that I can dig into when I want to make a change.

The questions usually come wrapped up with some frustration over their own husband’s desire to be involved in all of the home decorating decisions. That or their husband’s frustrations over the home junk that is taking over the basement/closets/dining room tables.

Here’s a question from just last month…

I’m always kind of stumped about how to answer that question.

I’m very lucky that my husband tolerates (and often encourages) my house foofing habit. He knows that playing in our home is my hobby and he’s fine with that. He doesn’t care how I decorate the mantle and I don’t care which way he puts the stripes when he mows the lawn. It works for us.

He’s interested in the major decisions like big furniture purchases and painting walls, but other than that, he leaves me to to my own devices. He would be just as happy if I put sports posters and Bruce Springsteen memorabilia on the walls.

But the truth is that if home decorating is your hobby, it’s a big hobby. You can’t hide it, put it away or otherwise not subject your people to your hobby. It, by definition, takes over your home.

So, if your fella has opinions about how your home looks or wants to be involved in decisions about what hangs on your walls, then you have to find a way to work with that. It’s his home too.

Since I don’t have much personal experience in this area, I thought I would turn it over to you, my brilliant readers. How do you and your man make decisions about how your home is decorated. Does he care? How do you handle it if he does?

Note: I am in no way implying that moose heads, gun racks and trophy collections are unstylish. In fact, I’m pretty sure that The Nester would think that the moose was “Awe”-some.

Photo credits: Moose, Gun rack, Trophies

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1 Lisa March 3, 2011 at 10:08 am

I’m not so much the constant decorator, but I am a furniture mover/tweaker. I grew up in apartments and we constantly rearranged to make the small spaces work. My hubs parents hadn’t moved their living room furniture in 20 years until a house remodel this year (and the grown kids are still a little uncomfortable with the new set up).

He freaked out just last weekend when I started moving my daughter’s bedroom set around. And I didn’t even put a new hole in the wall.

Mostly he just rolls his eyes though – so long as he gets to keep his basement man room however he likes. And I do not care at all what he does down there in the pit anyway.

2 Sommer March 3, 2011 at 10:26 am

Kimba my husband is much like yours. He does like to be involved in a few major purchases, like appliances or new sofas. But kids rooms, art, nick nacks, he could care less. In fact his motto is “Happy Wife, Happy Life!” haha.

3 Gina March 3, 2011 at 11:03 am

I agree with that, happy wife-happy life, so does my husband. But if my happiness comes at his expense that’s not ok. If it makes him happy to hang a 5 point buck on the wall, what’s the big deal? If he hunted it and shot it then its a huge accomplishment for him, something he’s proud of. It should be displayed just like I display my happy little things or my kids artwork.

4 Kat March 3, 2011 at 11:04 am

Mine is the same way! Further, he’s got all of his fishing and hunting stuff and a garage full of “important stuff” that I don’t make a peep about.

5 Kathie March 3, 2011 at 10:27 am

I can’t wait to read some of the other responses! phew, I thought I was the only blogger with a husband who isn’t a fan of all my “junk” aka home decor type stuff that I have laying around….especially taking up space in the basement. Or the money (which is peanuts, really) I’ve spent on some of it. I really do upcycle a lot, but that doesn’t seem to matter. I kinda feel better knowing there are others in the same situation :-)
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6 Kimba March 3, 2011 at 10:44 am

As much as my hubby doesn’t mind my home decorating hobby, he really isn’t a fan of my junk collection. Luckily, I have a small space in our basement dedicated to my junk. As long as it doesn’t venture outside that space, we’re ok.

7 Joy March 3, 2011 at 10:29 am

To address the moving stuff and showing stuff problem we kind of divided the rooms, and agreed that we wouldn’t mess with each other’s stuff without talking about it first. Of course this is after 40 years together. Luckily for me he has a great eye for color and arrangement of the big stuff and I like working with the smaller stuff so that has helped a lot. Sometimes we both just ignore what we don’t like and as time goes on we both tweek and adjust things.
- Joy

8 Gina March 3, 2011 at 10:33 am

My husband saw these pics and his suggestion is that there should be more guns, specifically a few revolvers. That being said, there should be some compromise. He lives there too and if he has thoughts about the appearance in his home he should be listened to. We work together at our house and I always remind myself that it must be comfortable for him too. At our house that means his gun books and magazines are accessible and his bullets are on the wall. I don’t go all fu-fu and he doesn’t hang guns on every flat surface.

9 Kimba March 3, 2011 at 10:50 am

Good point. If he cares, then he need to have a vote. My hubby’s office is his own space. I don’t mess with anything in there. And I’ve promised him lots of sports stuff in the basement.

10 Brooke Bundy March 3, 2011 at 10:35 am

Luckily, my husband is a lot like yours when it comes to my decorating. He knows that it’s my thing and that I LOVE it so he doesn’t try to stop me when I want to make changes (which is OFTEN). He doesn’t always get my vision, and sometimes after I gush about my latest “amazing” idea, I’m met with skepticism and a “really??” but he lets me do my thing around the house and he always tells me how beautiful it is, even if at first he wasn’t so sure how it would turn out. I do include him in big decisions, like buying furniture, or making changes to existing furniture, but for things that aren’t going to cost a lot of money or aren’t going to turn his world upside-down for days, I am free to do on my own without consulting him first.

11 Kimba March 3, 2011 at 10:53 am

We’ve got that same thing going on here. He doesn’t often see my vision, but he let’s me do my thing anyway. And he’s usually appropriately impressed when it’s done.

12 Kerrie March 3, 2011 at 10:35 am

My mom has this same issue, she gave my dad his own room but it doesn’t always work. For instance she has had 3 sofas in the last 2o years and had the last 2 custom upholstered in similar fabrics because he didn’t want to change….he originally didn’t like it the first time. She has just learned what he wants and then puts her spin into that. Work with him even if he doesn’t know what he is talking about.

I am lucky as my husband’s mother was also changing her house all the time, that and my husband is colorblind. I can have whatever wild colors I want but it limits me in patterns and artwork that bothers him. I have just learned what I should avoid so he is comfortable and then I do what I want. Usually he doesn’t care except thinking I have an obsession with pillows and organizing, and I probably do. :)

Good luck with finding your balance, men are all different and sometime that is hard! Rooting for you!

13 Kimba March 3, 2011 at 10:54 am

HA! My husband is color blind too. That has often worked to my advantage.

14 Jessica @ Decor Adventures March 3, 2011 at 10:36 am

Hi Kimba and all,

What a great topic. I do redecorate a lot too and I tell the hubs all about it. Sometimes he wants to be involved, sometimes not. But we make sure to discuss projects so we are on the same page before anything major begins, like a renovation or something.

Most of the time I move stuff around and he barely notices. Like last night I asked him if he saw what I put up on the bulletin board and he says “No, I haven’t walked past it yet.” “You got the mail in the foyer didn’t you?” I caught him cause he did walk past there! “Well, I didn’t look at the bulletin board.” See, most of the time he doesn’t even pay attention :-)
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15 Dawn March 3, 2011 at 10:42 am

Funny, Funny, My husband and I live in a log home, so most would think it is decorated in the lodge theme. (Plaid, Pine Cone, and Dead Heads on the Wall). Ours is not, luckily my hubby could care less what I do. I have even moved in new living room furniture one time and it took him 2 years to notice. I’m sure he has an opinion, but leaves the decorating up to me. So glad he doesn’t want to be involved, not sure what we might have. LOL
Great post, have a good day :)
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16 Laura @ Ms Smartie Pants March 3, 2011 at 10:49 am

Too funny, you pretty much summed it up in my house tho. He is ok with how I move things around and I don’t care about which way he mows the lawn. I will say that after 22+ years he has gotten used to it and trust me. In the earlier days he wanted more input but history has taught him that I am generally going to do what is pleasing. I am fortunate he really encourages me and always ask about my blog. My advice would be to keep your husband in the loop, don’t go in debt to have this hobby and he will probably be fine.
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17 Kimba March 3, 2011 at 10:55 am

I do think that these things often work themselves out over time. The fellas often have stronger opinions about such things in the early years of marriage.

18 antiquechase March 3, 2011 at 11:13 am

I guess I’m lucky that my husband really could care less… lucky? I always wonder what it would be like to have a husband with input…. I wrote a blog post about this a while back… “Flower Power and Mr. AntiqueChase” where I addressed this very topic…

He does get very BUGGED about the garage being full!! That is a big problem!
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19 Kimba March 3, 2011 at 11:21 am

Oh yes! The garage is an issue. If I start filling it up with my stuff (like it is now), he starts to get kinda bugged. I need to get out there and move my stuff.

20 Emily March 3, 2011 at 11:20 am

First off I am very lucky that for the most part my husband really does not care how I decorate… just as long as I do it on the cheap :) He may have an opinion from time to time but for the most part I decorate how I like. Second, when we got married we agreed that the garage would be his domain and the remainder of the house would be mine. He is allowed to do whatever he likes in the garage (we don’t park in our small one car garage) and I am allowed to decorate how I see fit in the rest of the house. Maybe she could “give” her husband one room in the house to decorate/call his own… may not work for everyone but it works for us :)

21 Maggie March 3, 2011 at 11:32 am

My husband knows that suppressing my desire to decorate would drive me insane. We joke that it’s cheaper than therapy. Mind you, my husband lives here and I want him to be happy too. That means that if he doesn’t like an idea I find a solution that works for both of us. He never flat out refuses me any idea, but I never do anything he grimaces at the first time I mention it. It’s all about compromise.
As for the stash – I get rid of a lot! Unless it’s sentimental or costs a lot to replace every Holiday it’s not going to get stored. Thrift stores are cheaper than storage tubs.

22 Kerri March 3, 2011 at 11:36 am

When it comes to seasonal decorating, my husband is completely okay with anything I choose, as long as I can find a home for it when it is “off” season. We do have limited space for storage which can make it challenging for a creative girl. ;)
As far as decorating with large pieces of art, well that is a completely different story because, well to say the least, we have very different tastes. Because of that we have a wall in the front hall that is barren and screaming for something but until we agree it will remain empty!!
The only other time my husband wants some input is when I am “creating” something….I will give him a heads up, the cost, colours, maybe a mock up or picture of the finished project and wait for his agreement (I can usually convince him that will be fabulous) and he likes my creative flair, so in that I am lucky.
I couldn’t imagine not being able to craft or create!!

PS: Sommer, my husband has that same motto: “Happy wife, Happy life!” LOL!!!

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24 Kristen@PrettySweet March 3, 2011 at 11:45 am

We’ve been married just over two years now and I like that my husband has an opinion on furniture/colors/placement of pictures on the wall, etc. – but sometimes it’s frustrating. It’s hard to be so excited about an idea and then remember you’re not the only one who has to live with it! Ha!

I do like what a few others have said about the newer husbands mellowing out a little later once they’ve learned to trust our design ability. =)
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25 Rondell March 3, 2011 at 11:57 am

Mr. K could care less, the only thing he said when I switched decorating styles was “I thought you liked prim”? Then went on with his life and I like that, I really couldn’t take a husband who wanted to be involved with my hobby of decorating, now he does get involved with major appliance and furniture purchases only because he likes to find the best deal and I’m all for that!
Thanks for a great post!

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27 T R March 3, 2011 at 12:18 pm

The hubster really couldn’t give a flying monkey’s behind what I do in our small apartment as long as it isn’t too girly or pink. That suits me fine. I agonized for 3 months over using green or brown paint in the living room. When I dragged him into it under the pretense of being oh so generous about his feelings for a space he had to live in, his response was to ask what color I liked better. FYI, green won and will be going up this weekend. The only time he puts his foot down is when I spy a larger peice of furniture sitting out by the dumpster. (Apartment dwellers leave behind and throw away amazing stuff!) I won a small battle just yesterday. Someone had abandonded a perfectly beautiful baker’s rack. I justified to him that our OLD baker’s rack was wobbly, the paint was chipping and I could use it out on the patio for plants. He gave in gracefully and I didn’t have to pout or stamp my foot even once. heehee!

28 LauraBeek March 3, 2011 at 12:18 pm

My husband loves to hunt. He just put in for the big horn sheep or something along those lines. Hie father loves to hunt. And while my mother in law does not mind having dead heads all over her gorgeous huge victorian/might as well be a cabin house, I feel there is a place for everything. First of all, the antlers and the bear rug on the wall are in our fabulously finished basement family room. They look wonderful down there. I even purchased a beautiful painting of a moose walking through the woods in the snow to go between the Elk and Moose antlers. And on another wall is a photograph my husband took of an elk while at Yellowstone. I think it looks kinda cool. And I feel like my home is a place where I want to be and where he wants to be. He feels welcome there. Some homes are totally feminine – not fair to the man. Anyway, after setting the unspoken rules about where the animals go, then you need to find a man whose wife only lets him keep his dead heads/man stuff in the garage. He needs to come over to get something and when he walks past the man stuff IN THE HOUSE (even if it’s only in one room) he will make comments to your husband about how great you are and how he HIS WIFE won’t allow him to bring any of it in the house. This actually happened but it wasn’t a set up. I really should bring him brownies.

29 Christine Aldinger March 3, 2011 at 12:34 pm

i am so blessed my hubby leaves it all to me…..he often says he is so lucky to never have broken a bone due to me moving things….ok lil honesty here he has mentioned a few unmentionable words here and there but we are still married so all is well!!!

30 Heathahlee March 3, 2011 at 2:18 pm

My husband and I talk about decorating if it’s something big…moving furniture, painting, tiling the kitchen floor, stuff like that. If I want to do something else, I generally just do it and hope he likes it. He knows that I’m the one here all day and I have to look at stuff, so I’d better like it.

We have had the discussion of “When I get the 12-point”…I know he will want to get it mounted (and should…I’m not saying I wouldn’t be happy for him)…he knows it’s not going in the two rooms I’m in the most…our bedroom and the living room. We have decided that there are certain areas of the house that we each can have to ourselves. He gets the office and I get my craft room. We can do whatever we want to in those room. My craft room is going to be a pretty blue with white trim. He can’t stand that. I know when he “gets the 12 point” he will mount it and put it in the office. Since I don’t have to be down there much, I don’t care.

It works for us. :)
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31 Lynda March 3, 2011 at 2:54 pm

This is a popular subject and happens to be high on our “discussion” list right now…we are quite different he likes the old fashioned matchy furniture type look and I am eclectic, it has to go together but not match ya know??? I don’t tell him how to run his business and he doesn’t tell me what color to paint or kind of furniture I buy. So far this is working but I’m getting ready to redo the MBedroom, uh oh, my colors are a soft grey blue w/green…he doesn’t know that yet{!}

32 ~K @ VintageSkye March 3, 2011 at 2:59 pm

Compromise!! But thats easy for me to say since hubs could care less about decorating or painting or even adding wainscoting or trim as long as I don’t stick him with the job:) When he is out of town I may get the wild idea to add trim to make the walls look paneled and paint the room a whole different color and he walks in, looks around, then no comment. I have to ask him if he likes it- he always does.
He just insists the furniture be comfortable.(Who wouldn’t)

Now if I asked him to do it for me…….
Not happenin! He gets crabby:) But if I’m doing a project while he is home, he usually will come over and tell me what I’m doing wrong, then it bugs him enough that he starts helping me do it right!

Our biggest battle is hauling big objects that I find.

I get a big eye roll and “no you can’t use my pickup, I need it”
So then I’ll stuff it into the Suburban and he thinks I’m gonna scratch the vehicle all up-I just can’t win on that one! (What is it with guys and their trucks?)
By the way, if any of you drive a suburban, I can fit anything in one, hee, hee- I usually try to haul stuff when he’s not around or he’d have a fit! 4×8 sheets of plywood (not sure how he thought the plywood got home when he saw it sitting in the garage- must have been to tired that day :) , many bags of concrete (he caught me on that one- wasn’t smiling either, but he knows he would have to let me take his pickup so he got over it)
So other than the hauling stuff and comfortable furniture I have free rein. But if he did make a comment about not liking something I would definitely try to change it to make him happy.
LOVE HIM!!
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33 ~K @ VintageSkye March 3, 2011 at 3:02 pm

Sorry I made such a long comment above Kimba! I should have just done a post on my blog and linked it in a shorter comment:)
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34 Laree @ Ever Heard of Euless March 3, 2011 at 3:26 pm

My situation is a bit different than the one described. My hubby doesn’t notice the little stuff. It’s the big stuff he can’t handle. Like paint! He’s so worried about reselling our house (not that we plan on moving for about 10 years!) that he wants to nix every choice.

I finally realized something: it’s whatever he DOESN’T WANT TO DO that he “hates”. I spent 19 hours sanding all the walls in our living room. When I suggested it to him, he was sure I was going to completely destroy the walls and he’d be patching giant holes. When I want to paint a room with stripes, he’s sure that it’s going to look horrible and be the biggest mistake. When I told him I wanted to build a bunkbed, he was sure it would be better and cheaper to just buy one. He’s been wrong every. single. time.

I’ve learned to walk a fine line between telling him my plans and just doing them. As a pilot, he’s gone Wed morning-Saturday evening. If I don’t start a project (say, tearing down all the paneling in our bathroom) until he leaves, and I”m done by the time he comes back, he’s very happy with the results.

It works for us!

35 Jennifer from Alabama March 3, 2011 at 4:07 pm

My husband sounds lot like Laree’s! He is definately afraid that we…excuse me…I am going to “ruin” the walls, floor, yard etc. With my, what I like to call improvements. To make things even more difficult, we are not in a place financially (we are almost 2 years out of veterinary school with a combined student loan debt of well over $300,000. Yes I’m telling the truth…kinda personal info but it drives me crazy when people think we are loaded just because we are veterinarians…we are not…we’ll be lucky lucky lucky to have it paid off in 20 years…with no retirement or significant savings account to speak of)…anyway going back to the topic…
He’s terrified that my repainting will cause the rooms to close in because of all the “thick” layers of paint…he has ME hesitating to hang anything on the walls due to the fear of nail holes…I’m not kidding…he didn’t want to secure our child’s bookcase to the wall because he didn’t want the nail holes to decrease the value of our home…seriously.
So, what I try to do is just let him know (make him think I’m asking him for permission) that I would like to _____(whatever the task is) if its a large one and about 3 months later I usually get my way. If I don’t think he’ll notice or if I’ve recently given in on something he wants (like a ski boat…) then I go ahead and do it. Sometimes its good sometimes its ugly.
So basically…I dont know what to tell you as advise! I just kinda wing it and hope…no pray for the best!

36 Jennifer March 3, 2011 at 5:37 pm

I welcome my husband’s advice and style when it comes to home decorating. He’s very much involved. We do have different styles…his is more modern and formal; mine is vintage and country. We somehow make it blend, and I think we do a pretty good job. For me, decorating our home is not a hobby. I need all the help I can get, which is why I visit blog like yours :) Thanks for all your help and advice!! My husband does all the hanging of shelves and pictures, etc. He would NEVER let me put holes in the wall! As long as it gets done, I’m happy.

37 Melissa March 4, 2011 at 7:38 am

I think it just takes time. My husband had more opinions when we were first married, but now that we’ve been married for nearly eleven years, he trusts my vision. I’ve given him opportunities to see that I know what I’m doing , and that usually, when I don’t, it can be reversed. I’ve become more confident, and he’s become more relaxed. We make a good team.
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38 colleen March 4, 2011 at 11:02 am

great post, i have been with honey bear for over 30 yrs. on the most part he doesnt care about the small stuff [unless its taking over the house .collections +junk]. comfort is his thing. he does gripe about i am more interested in how it looks than how comfortable or functional a piece is. so last time we bought a sofa i measured him head to toes with a pillow ,1 cusion and rounded arms. he likes nuetrals and green. we have colaborated on several things i design and paint he builds. we have a blacksmith shop in garage.[garage is his domain]. he doesnt always see my vision but usually likes the results. not girly here more rustic. i think i need to clean house and clear out ;) . its a process .

39 Karyn March 4, 2011 at 11:44 am

I guess I’m lucky. I’m more of a masculine decorator. When I see flowers and lace, I RUN. Our bedroom is navy and our bedding is striped. We have a beautiful great big Texas map above the fireplace. The house is painted in nuetrals and I never said a word about the condition of his office. We are about to build a house and we’ve made ALL the decisions on decor, flooring, painting etc – NOW before a single piece of wood is laid down. I don’t want to build AND fight!

40 colleen March 4, 2011 at 2:21 pm

we added on 500 sq feet to our house 4 yrs ago and karyn is right. pick your battles. in the end the decisions we made ended up being the right ones so win win ;)

41 Lara March 4, 2011 at 2:25 pm

I wanted to hang a set of vintage bird prints above our piano over a year ago, right after we had gotten married. He thought I was crazy, and said he didn’t like the birds. I realized I was just into them because everyone else was, and I moved on.

I find that it is good for me to have his balancing effect. He can see my heart better than me sometimes and knows when I am becoming too consumed by possessions. He is constantly encouraging me to decorate according to what I love and with what I create and to not just copy blogs or design magazines. I guess you could say he appreciates my inner creativity, and loves to see me use that and not just run the race to keep up with the Joneses.

42 Katie March 4, 2011 at 3:00 pm

I am learning that God created a desire to provide in men and a desire to create in women. Men may innately desire to provide for their family but women desire to take his provision and create a warm safe home out of it. It is a perfect partnership. My husband desired me to consult him on everything as well. Eventually though I had to trust his ability and his heart in the choices he makes to provide for us and he trusts my creativity and my heart in my choices in how I make our home warm and welcoming. The more he trusts me and gives me the reins on such things, the more I desire to create what will be warm for him at the end of the day.

43 Brook March 4, 2011 at 5:46 pm

The only decorating thing my husband cares about is the TV. As long as I don’t touch the TVs he doesn’t care what I do. Plus he’s color blind so has no input on color or whether things match. It’s kind of a joke among my friends because I seriously have rearranged a whole room and painted it and had him be in it for a few minutes before he even commented that something looked “different”. As long as the sofa is comfy and it doesn’t require him to do a ton of work then he stays out of it.

44 Lena K. March 4, 2011 at 5:59 pm

I tell him to read Proverbs 31 – it’s my job!

45 {darlene} March 4, 2011 at 8:34 pm

I am only here to say: your note at the end cracked me up, Kimba!!!

46 Mary Jean Taylor March 5, 2011 at 11:08 pm

Me and my man both like to decorate. However, I evolved and he stayed in the same old habits. If it looked good 10 years ago, then it still looks good to him. So, he has a hard time when I change things and update them from when we decorated together way back then.We have somewhat divided rooms up! He gets his stuff in his 2 room sand I pretty much do what I want in the rest of the house. He is however VERY MIFFED with my “stack” that is growing in the garage of stuff I have salvaged from here and there. In fact I tapped “the pile” the other day with my car and it went crashing over…dangerously close to his motorcycle. Praise the Lord it was spared! Scary moment!

47 karen ho fatt March 6, 2011 at 7:34 pm

I always involve my husband in all the decision making. Although not a designer, he is very practical. i do make a spot for all his stuff too- stuffed animals and the like- I want to make sure he feels respected. I also listen to the opnions of contractors as well but I usually at the end of the day, make final decisions based on everyone’s 2 cents worth.
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48 Fiona's Mosaic March 7, 2011 at 7:55 pm

I always tell him to let me try what I want first, then we can always change it. But I do have him give me input on any construction or major purchases.

He has loved everything I have picked out so far! :o )
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49 Holly March 11, 2011 at 4:48 pm

My husband does not get a say so! He doesn’t care what I do as long as I don’t decorate the house in pink (except for my mom cave)! I redecorate the house a lot and rearrange the house a lot. He always jokes he never knows what he is going to come home to. He never knows if he is going to walk into the wrong house at the end of each day (I would never move our house just FYI)!
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50 Marina March 24, 2011 at 4:16 am

He just bring things in and I have to make a way to fit them somewhere…..

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